Over the last 28 years I have seen hundreds of bands. Music has always been a dear friend to me and from a young age the majority of my spending money has been spent on paying my respects in person.  I’ve gone to shows with friends, with my sisters, with my boyfriends, with my cousins, […]

If every team would rather take a possible shit season than condoning DUIs, violence, domestic violence, and child endangerment I would feel a lot better about wearing a jersey. Good on the 49ers for learning from their past blind eyes and releasing Aldon Smith after his FOURTH ARREST. I hope that the other 31 teams […]

Took myself to see ‘Amy’ last night and holy hell I am glad I did. We all ‘saw’ what happened to her, but the film reminds us that her name was Amy Jade Winehouse and she was a beyond talented, but tormented person who died at 27 years old. Amy was no saint, and the […]

In my Lyft carpool today the other passenger said he was from Canada and moved here with his wife two years ago. Our driver said he first moved here in 1967 after a stint at the Monterey Naval Academy. He said that was the year the Supreme Court ruled in Loving v.Virginia in which laws […]

There are different kinds of loneliness. The kind you feel when you’re in love. The kind when all you want is for the bus to come so you can crawl into bed with them. The kind that that is fleeting, comforting. The kind that expires at the end of the day. There is the kind […]

The year is 2015 and there is a short cut for everything. You can google something in seconds it used to take a trip to a library to look up. You can read a condensed version of basically any book rather than complete your 9th grade homework assignment like they did in 1952. You can […]

‘Yes, I am a woman. People look at me differently. They see me as this macho male. But my heart and my soul and everything that I do in life, what is part of me is feminine. It is who I am. I was not genetically born that way. I have all the male parts. […]